And here come the holidays

As the holiday season merrily invades our lives, it is hoped by many that the times involved will be safe and sane and not cause a “holidaze” that can cause trouble.

For example, after Thanksgiving Day it is important that the leftovers be properly stored. That is, if there are any. In my life, while living with my parents, there often was nothing left to save because of how many family members ate, especially if Uncle Clarence attended. It often seemed that some had not eaten for a long time.

However, that’s family, right? In-laws, outlaws, cousins, sisters and brothers, nieces and nephews, aunts and uncles, grandpas and grandmas. And the starving neighbors across the street. Big family with big appetites. And who put on the feast for all? My dear mom. Actually, if any food was left, especially desserts, someone would volunteer to take it home. Yep.

Waddling past turkey day now, after staying away from the bathroom scales, the Christmas and New Year times ought to be addressed. It seems like a good idea to limit purchases based on our budget. Avoid using credit cards to the point of their melting. Do what you can with love and not in trying to impress anyone.

Keep it simple, you know? It’s probably a great idea to not over imbibe those tempting alcoholic beverages. Safe and sane; avoid the strain and possibly the shame. Attend a church service, especially for Christmas even if you don’t regularly attend. But you can enjoy some Yuletide commentary and singing carols.

The holiday season can bring sadness, as it seems that more folks than usual leave earth during what can be emotional times. Sometimes people feel lonely because, well, because they’re alone without family or friends. Pray for them. Let the light of Christmas shine with your actions. Help one another.

Charles Dickens wrote, “A merry Christmas to everybody! A happy New Year to all the world!” And even Dr. Seuss offered, “Maybe Christmas ... perhaps ... means a little bit more!”

And best of all, perhaps are the notable quotes that emphasize themes of giving, reflection and togetherness, such as Francis of Assisi’s, “For it is in giving that we receive.” And Winston Churchill’s, “Christmas is a season not only of rejoicing, but of reflection.”

Hey, I think that I might have heard an “Amen!” Hope so.