Letter to the Editor: A grandfather’s perspective of autism

Dear Editor,

I’m deeply saddened by the way autism is being discussed in our country today. After nearly 40 years in education — and now as the proud grandfather of a bright, beautiful granddaughter with autism — I feel compelled to speak up.

The recent comments made by Secretary of Health and Human Services Robert F. Kennedy Jr. reflect harmful misconceptions that simply don’t align with the lived experiences of so many individuals and families.

During his April 16 press conference, Secretary Kennedy suggested that children with autism will “never hold a job,” “never play baseball,” “never write a poem” and “never go on a date.” These statements echo outdated stereotypes that fail to recognize the diverse range of abilities, strengths and aspirations within the autism community. At a time when we should be championing inclusion and following evidence-based practices, it’s troubling to hear language that risks setting back progress.

Autism is complex, varied and deeply human. Yes, it can come with real challenges, but it also brings incredible insight, talent and depth. No two stories are the same. To reduce such a broad and dynamic spectrum to a narrative of hopelessness is not only inaccurate, it’s damaging.

Secretary Kennedy has also spoken of creating a national database of individuals with autism. For many, this kind of rhetoric raises serious ethical and historical concerns. We’ve seen before how language like this has been used to justify discrimination and even atrocities against people with disabilities.

We absolutely should continue researching autism, including exploring environmental factors and potential treatments, but that work must be grounded in science, not fear. Silencing experts, cutting funding and spreading stigma doesn’t move us forward. It only deepens misunderstanding.

Autistic people don’t need pity. They need respect, opportunity and support. They need educators, communities and leaders committed to helping them thrive. Above all, they deserve to be seen for who they truly are: valued individuals with the right to live full, meaningful lives.

John Bernhisel

Cowley